Invite friends over for dinner.
Two bites into said dinner, develop severe abdominal pain.
Friends finish dinner and then go home while you lie on your bed, wondering if perhaps, you are about to die.
Also, vomiting.
Go to ER. Get triaged, doped up on morphine and hooked up to an IV of fluids. Then, have nurse tell you that “this is technically only an overflow ER, so it’s going to take longer to do anything and if you need an ultrasound or anything like that we’ll have to put you in an ambulance and drive you to another hospital”. Picture bill for said possible excursion, wonder if your insurance will find some way to screw you.
Freak the fuck out. Cause, you know, nothing better than adding insult to injury.
18 gallons of blood drawn. Told the Dr. wants to send you for a CT scan. Only issue with that? Said half-ass ER has CT machine but no CT tech. Wait for CT Tech to arrive from other hospital. Continue waiting. While you’re at it, wait some more, and also freak out some more because, seriously? This is ridiculous.
Ask if, since they don’t have the resources to actually treat you, if they can just freakin’ transfer you already before you wait interminably.
Be told that that’s somehow illegal. Contemplate leaving AMA, going to another hospital ER, and starting all over again.
At this point it’s 1 AM.
Nurse comes back, says Dr. has changed his mind because your white blood cell count is elevated, wants you to have CT with contrast. That requires drinking a lovely barium “smoothie”. About 40 ounces of it.
Oh but wait, it gets better. They don’t even have barium. They have to wait for it to be delivered from, you guessed it, another hospital. And then, you’ll have to wait an hour after that before you can get the CT.
Insert more freaking out here. Envision yourself either dying or at least growing to a ripe old age in this here hospital bed.
Barium Arrives. Do your best to slam that shit down without yakking. Finally finish your lovely Barium Dessert at 1:55 AM. Nurse calls over. CT Tech will arrive at 2:55 to whisk you off to CT land.
Develop extreme hatred for one nurse, whose idea of bedside manner seems to involve sighing, making exasperated faces, and generally being an insufferable human being. Name her Bitchy McBitch face. Plot her death. Gain immense satisfaction in the thought of running into her in a dark alley and beating that smug effing look of her damn ugly bitchface.
Reach an altered state of consciousness in where one would be willing to do just about anything to getthefuckoutofhere.
Wait some more.
3 AM rolls around: no sign of CT tech. Husband hovers at nursing station like a black freaking cloud. Finally gets nurse to page CT tech.
CT tech is in the building! Begin to hope that some actual progress is being made.
Realize that, at this point, you’ve been in this hellhole for about 4 hours and still don’t have any actual diagnosis. Freaking awesome.
3:15, CT tech arrives with wheelchair like a mirage of awesomeness. Chat with CT tech on the way through winding halls to machine, feel like she obviously has a good head on her shoulders, ask her: is it always this bad? She says, and I quote:
“I wouldn’t come to this ER if my arm was falling off and it was the last emergency room on the planet.”
Super freaking awesome.
CT takes only about 20 minutes. Contrast dye is really freaking weird and makes you feel oddly warm.
Back to bay 15 in the ER of Doom. Wait 30 mins for CT to be sent to Australia to be read.
About 4:30 AM at this point. Still no actual diagnosis. Dr. finally comes in and says CT scan shows a “small” kidney stone and urine analysis shows a big fugly UTI.
Heave a small sigh of relief, assume the end is near and that your pillow, beautiful, beautiful pillow, can’t be that far away.
Ohhhhh but wait. Dr. doesn’t like your resting heart rate. It’s high. Like, 127 bpm high. Attempt to convince Dr. that high heart rate is clearly the result of this place BEING SO FUCKING INSANE and that you were agitated because you CAME HERE IN INCREDIBLE PAIN AND THEN WAS LEFT TO LANGUISH FOR HOURS NOT KNOWING WHAT WAS WRONG WITH YOU.
Nurse does EKG. What a freaking miracle they happened to have one of those. In the meantime, a 4 year old girl with pneumonia moves in next door, and across the hallway, a parapalegic homeless man is colorfully describing how badly he’s going to fuck a nurse up if they stick him with a needle again.
Look over, see a tiny pair of 4 year old’s shoes on the ground in the next bay over, hear a doctor half-assedly attempting to talk to her father in Spanish. Realize our health care system is irreparably broken. Sob.
Your favorite nurse, Pressy, a tiny Filipino grandmother comes back in with 2 mg of Ativan in the hopes that it will get your heart rate down. She explains to you how she mixed it with extra saline solution so that it wouldn’t burn going in. Pats your arm and smiles in that universal grandmotherly way. Faith in humanity somewhat restored.
Lay down and try to zen yourself to a lower heart rate. Your poor husband looks like he’s been run over by a truck. Try to picture yourself floating in the pool at your parent’s house with a pitcher full of your father’s famous margaritas in your hand. Heart rate comes down.
Pressy comes in with a big giant pill. Congrats! Here’s your antibiotic, you’re out of here! Wait, let me get you some water with some ice in it to take that with. Refrain from hugging her and asking her to move in with you. Take the antibiotic, wait for discharge papers to come in.
5:45 AM.
Discharge papers come with prescription for antibiotics and further instructions of what to do to try to flush away the small kidney stone. Sign away. Out of the gown, back into clothes, stumble to car and husband drives the 6 blocks home on autopilot.
Come home to hungry cats and a sleepy pup. Make it into bed by sheer force of will. Collapse. 6:30 AM.
So yeah, that’s how I spent my Friday night. Hopefully the rest of you had a far better evening.
Here’s the moral of the story people. Hug your family, take your vitamins, drink lots of water and do some research on your local Emergency Rooms when you have time to figure out which one is best equipped to care for you under any circumstances. Don’t just go to where is closest. Go to where is best.